Friday, December 11, 2009

Spiritual Wedding Card Messages How Should I Sign A Wedding Card If I Don't Like One Of The People?

How should I sign a wedding card if I don't like one of the people? - spiritual wedding card messages

The brother of my friend is getting married, and neither my friend nor I are happy. Your friend is very young, very immature and anti-religion (which is how he grew up) and see this as a disaster for a number of reasons. We always send a gift and a card), but not invited to the wedding (no family, but I would have said something that you think (perhaps from his family, his faith, and if it produces) is the right option and is certainly something that is spiritual or religious in nature. What should I write, the subtle and not offensive? I do not want to my horror, that something is wrong, and write good wishes to give expression to. You do not want to cause problems, but we can with something that does not support happy. Finally, we write: "Damn, congratulations and we are confident hope that does not mean that you are everything I have, even their faith." But I think maybe a place of Scripture, or what?

27 comments:

Jessica - B2B July 4th said...

Do you want a stick-it-by-turn them any kind is immature. He offends everyone and are looking at less sensitive to any help or advice to do after the wedding and, possibly, if the EU to the south. As an older person. The best thing to be done, hope, love and happiness with others to speak (because ultimately the people and I hope that nothing less than the happiness) of his brother in law also in his marriage, and I wanted the opportunity to express your love for him personally was given in her marriage (this it will probably believe it was a mistake not inviting family and thinking of the reasons why her family was not involved, and whether) it was a wise decision. People often lose sight of what, if one is in love, and it belongs to the future of his brother to live and work with it, and learn. Make it easy to get to you and your friend, if and when this time instead of fear that you will say Told You So ".

ladedamo... said...

They are ready to send each other messages, to send a gift. Wedding Netiquette is simply not invited, not a gift. Obviously not ask enough of the family, so I'm not even sure that your gift or any other sense, and would understand it would. Of course it is not so, as though (not to invite the family the courtesy of the family which in itself is rare).

Sometimes, you just cut people and letting go in the same family.

Amie87 AKA Mrs. L said...

Sign congratulations, we are very happy for you. Love, and the name of her friend. Sign in the same way would be if the people they loved so much. If you are really concerned about their welfare, have a conversation with him in private, is a wedding card is not the place to leave a mark to ... Ask why they are not invited to the wedding, ask him about his faith, but not her boyfriend accused of things and put them as defensive.

Ms. Pirate said...

His anti-religious, it is his choice and he needs you to push your religion down his throat. To send a gift then do it because you love, do not try to teach him a lesson or something. He will be able to see, just because you sent. Just because she does not share his views did not make him a bad person. Drop the attitude of holier than thou, and maybe he had an invitation.

YouAndI said...

Well, we preach, not one of them and have no way offensive. I suggest that the true message that we really want the best for them and proves to be everything you expect. Then I will not write an encouraging (to teach or judge) Bible verse below.

B.A. CREATURE said...

It's your wedding, giving him the right to make his statement at the time? self-righteous! cool ... do not have time between now and when the marriage does not go left, but the marriage should be so I'm sure it was a sacred event.

truefirs... said...

Send a card with courtesy, as saying: "Dear John and Susan, my best wishes as you begin your life together. What a shower blessings! Love, Chris and Sarah.

You do not have the lyric about how you are for him. Just be nice and classy.

smilinge... said...

Beloved, love one another: for the love of God, and he who loves is born of God, and God knows ... Beloved, if God so loved us, we must also love one another, God remains in us and his love is perfected in us. "

~ 1 John 4:7, 11-12 ~

smilinge... said...

Beloved, love one another: for the love of God, and he who loves is born of God, and God knows ... Beloved, if God so loved us, we must also love one another, God remains in us and his love is perfected in us. "

~ 1 John 4:7, 11-12 ~

drip said...

If you are not invited to the wedding and the wife does not understand why the world is that sending a gift? As a Christian, do not send either the gift of the heart, or to send a gift to all.

Poking people with sticks. ⚀⚀ said...

I signed the same way as strong, if not considered the devil. Take the road here. They only cause unexpected problems are different.

justclic... said...

I think learning to make compromises "is perfect. This is one of my friends always says, and it is good advice for any couple.

shortmam... said...

You are signing your family the best, or something like generics.

spawn said...

Better luck next time, but wish him luck.

spawn said...

Better luck next time, but wish him luck.

Caligirl said...

Hey, we regret that your every wish, I can your next wife
Joke ......... Just Keep It Short and Congratulations!

jaded said...

dear brother. Congratulations on your recent marriage. Marriage is hope for you and the She Devil big.

Dear SIS

jaded said...

dear brother. Congratulations on your recent marriage. Marriage is hope for you and the She Devil big.

Dear SIS

Worthless Knowledge said...

Hey Buddy,
Are you alone? If not, then escape from the crazy and the control. I think you should now receive an application for annulment as bro. God does not and can not even characteristic values of the pagan family. Do not get me wrong, I'm happy for you. I just want more of this woman going back to do in the day. She teaches Sunday school and is now in the Reading Club Oprah. Find a friend, leave your wife, you will not miss any damage, running only as fast as you can. You can crash at my house. Ok, we again

.... So, I would just like to say how much I'm happy for you both, and we hope you will be happy together .... ....... .... forever.

Pessimism
Your friend

Katie T said...

Hold heart or generic. I know from experience what you think about it, though subtle, passive-aggressive - just push on. Will he be mad in the context of the most important day of your life and happy. You can be what you want about religion, but in the end of his being - can not someone elses beliefs. If he goes on religion, which obviously would not marry this person. I know it's hard, but you have to let him live his own life, he made his own mistakes - a smile on your face and support them, especially if something goes wrong. I hate you for things, the South and you have nowhere to go, because you have failed, what they described as "his control" and opinions. No matter how you do not feel to live your life and not what you be happy with him. I hope that everything works for everyone, and you can create a way to find seeing the good in her boyfriend too.

Emily Charlotte said...

I like to know working as a person when I see someone who seems to occur in a disastrous marriage. However, the card is not the time to express any feelings about it, even in subtle ways. If you are worried about him and want to say something, but their alignment with the kind permission before marriage, he can think about before marriage. After he is already married, it is not necessary to say anything, because nothing good can it. Manners It is easy to show incorrectly on the map. If you do not know what to say, so just wish them good luck.

Emily Charlotte said...

I like to know working as a person when I see someone who seems to occur in a disastrous marriage. However, the card is not the time to express any feelings about it, even in subtle ways. If you are worried about him and want to say something, but their alignment with the kind permission before marriage, he can think about before marriage. After he is already married, it is not necessary to say anything, because nothing good can it. Manners It is easy to show incorrectly on the map. If you do not know what to say, so just wish them good luck.

Garnet Glitter said...

A wedding gift with the card in certain appreciation and support of marriage .. NO is a chance, no matter how subtle strike, the choice of a bride and groom say it is bad.

It's also a chance to have a "Back To Jesus Meeting.

If you do, you can forget about a relationship with this couple and their children to come .... They throw gasoline on a fire lighter, Toots. That's what we do.

Go ahead and learn the hard way.

Garnet Glitter said...

A wedding gift with the card in certain appreciation and support of marriage .. NO is a chance, no matter how subtle strike, the choice of a bride and groom say it is bad.

It's also a chance to have a "Back To Jesus Meeting.

If you do, you can forget about a relationship with this couple and their children to come .... They throw gasoline on a fire lighter, Toots. That's what we do.

Go ahead and learn the hard way.

Anne said...

Honestly, I would not try to do anything but praise. When he turns to religion, a verse of Scripture, is meaningless and insulting. I stayed with the love the sinner, hate the sin and focus only with love and support and hope for the best wasted and be willing to share their faith with him in a place of love and support, something of that sentence. If you cut off the money now more than ever to help you in case something goes wrong. At this point probably can not save a bad decision.

If I you, I would write something like:

We hope and pray for the best for you as you begin your new life together. Congratulations!

Anne said...

Honestly, I would not try to do anything but praise. When he turns to religion, a verse of Scripture, is meaningless and insulting. I stayed with the love the sinner, hate the sin and focus only with love and support and hope for the best wasted and be willing to share their faith with him in a place of love and support, something of that sentence. If you cut off the money now more than ever to help you in case something goes wrong. At this point probably can not save a bad decision.

If I you, I would write something like:

We hope and pray for the best for you as you begin your new life together. Congratulations!

Beautiful Sunshine said...

I like your idea! lol I have just named after the theme of their faith and not as rude to invite your family, but I hope u happy HES

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